How is your house so clean?
How are you always on time?
How do you have it all together?
I often get so many questions about how I keep all my ducks in a row. And, quite honestly, it always makes me laugh because I do not feel like that way at all! Chaos and always one step from losing my mind is how I often feel.
Here’s the thing. I really think all mamas feel that way. Whether you have one child or six. Working mom, stay at home mom or work at home mom, we all feel that way at times.
I decided that I would share some tips on how I keep things from taking over and getting more chaotic than they already are.
After a while of thinking of how I keep the ship sailing, it came to me – my blessed systems. I have so many systems in place.
When we are going through a trying season or if someone is sick or if we just had a new baby, the systems are already put into place so that I don’t have to think about how to make it through the day. I just had never thought about it because the habits/routines are in place and I just do them.
When I sat down and began listing all my systems, I had way more than I had thought. Here are a few:
- Day Theme/Homemaking
- Menu planning/Grocery
- Errands/Days Out
- Cloth diapering
- Garage Saling/Thrifting
- Make – Up/Getting ready for the day
- Getting out the door
- Holiday Prep
- Commission (aka allowance)
As a large family mama who is taking care of numerous people, systems are where the magic happens. They are the glue that holds it all together.
Some may say that having so many systems (or routines) in place can stifle creativity and feel binding, I feel the complete opposite. I find freedom in having them. I find that it takes me a lot less time to do the things that need to be done and in turn, I have more free time.
Over the next few weeks, I will be spilling the beans on the systems I have used, what I do now and what has worked the best for our family.
Are you excited? I am excited to share them with you! Do you have any systems in place to keep your family smooth sailing? I’d love to hear!