Our System for Commission


Teaching our children about handling money and making good financial decisions is extremely important to my husband and me.

We live in a world in which instant gratification and the “Me first!” attitude seems to be at the forefront of our children’s minds. If we are being honest, most people’s minds – even adults.

Andy and I want our kids to be hard workers, with a good work ethic and know how to properly handle money.

I have always waffled back and forth on allowance or earnings for kids. My kids are part of the family and they do have family duties. Those are jobs that help maintain and keep the day to day running. I refuse to pay them for washing dishes or helping fold and put away laundry. Those are all jobs they have for just being part of the family.

However, there are a lot of jobs that their “clean freak” mama would like to be done. These jobs do not make the day to day running of the house better or worse. These jobs just help keep mama happy.

First and foremost, there are things that I want my kids to learn to do. Habits I would like them to instill. Should I pay them to do those things? Probably not. However, I refuse to pay them a weekly commission if these personal habits are not done on a daily or weekly basis.

Before paying them commission, these are the items that need to be given attention:

  • They have to be in the Word daily. Once again, I don’t know if this is wise, however, money speaks. I know they are not going to be paid as adults to read their Bible daily but I want them to make it a habit. Also, the Bible has a lot to say about stewardship and stewardship is one of the main reasons behind the idea of giving them commission.
  • They have to maintain their bedrooms, laundry, and possessions. I am not going to hand over money to a child who has LEGOs strewn about all over the floor because he did an extra job. He has to be diligent about picking up his belongings. Taking care of what your money has purchased or that you own is another aspect of stewardship I want them to learn.
  • They are required to be involved in one act of service a week. One of the qualifiers we put on paying commission is they have to serve without getting paid at least once a week. One of those times being when I have moms over once a month. With adults in the room, our kids are more than able to watch the kids. A lot of my friends around here, since its military, have husband’s deployed and they need that time of rest and refreshment. Another example of service can be helping out at church. It cannot be a paid act. I want my kids to be servants not takers.
  • They have to maintain a good work ethic and attitude. Part of this training is to train our children in how they should approach life and a job.  God calls us to approach every task as if doing it for Him.  “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” – Colossians 3:23       Like I stated before, I am not paying my kids to have a good attitude and do what they are supposed to be doing. I am trying to instill good habits.

After all those prerequisites are done, they have a job which is above and beyond their daily duties.

We have a lot of white trim, doorways, and doors in our home. I go crazy if there are black fingerprints all over them. One of the jobs is to wipe down all the white trim once a week.

I have yet to find a system that addresses all my pros and cons of allowance systems. Teaching my kids and guiding them in the ways of work ethic, attitude, and finance is very important.

What about you? Do you have a compensation or allowance system in your family? What’s that look like for you?


This post was part of the Works For Me Wednesday series! Feel free to comment and link any WFMW posts you may have to share!wfmw


WFMW: Systems


How is your house so clean?

How are you always on time?

How do you have it all together?

I often get so many questions about how I keep all my ducks in a row.  And, quite honestly, it always makes me laugh because I do not feel like that way at all! Chaos and always one step from losing my mind is how I often feel.

Here’s the thing. I really think all mamas feel that way. Whether you have one child or six. Working mom, stay at home mom or work at home mom, we all feel that way at times.

I decided that I would share some tips on how I keep things from taking over and getting more chaotic than they already are.

After a while of thinking of how I keep the ship sailing, it came to me – my blessed systems. I have so many systems in place.

When we are going through a trying season or if someone is sick or if we just had a new baby, the systems are already put into place so that I don’t have to think about how to make it through the day.  I just had never thought about it because the habits/routines are in place and I just do them.

When I sat down and began listing all my systems, I had way more than I had thought. Here are a few:

  • Day Theme/Homemaking
  • Morning
  • Homeschool
  • Evening
  • Menu planning/Grocery
  • Errands/Days Out
  • Cleaning/Chores
  • Laundry
  • Cloth diapering
  • Garage Saling/Thrifting
  • Make – Up/Getting ready for the day
  • Decluttering/Purging
  • Getting out the door
  • Holiday Prep
  • Commission (aka allowance)

As a large family mama who is taking care of numerous people, systems are where the magic happens. They are the glue that holds it all together.

Some may say that having so many systems (or routines) in place can stifle creativity and feel binding, I feel the complete opposite. I find freedom in having them. I find that it takes me a lot less time to do the things that need to be done and in turn, I have more free time.

Over the next few weeks, I will be spilling the beans on the systems I have used, what I do now and what has worked the best for our family.

Are you excited? I am excited to share them with you! Do you have any systems in place to keep your family smooth sailing? I’d love to hear!